Ten Things Women Want

 All humans have the need to feel loved and significant.

 Logo_ontransparent convertedTherefore, since we have been made right in God’s sight by faith, we have peace with God because of what Jesus Christ our Lord has done for us. Because of our faith, Christ has brought us into this place of undeserved privilege where we now stand, and we confidently and joyfully look forward to sharing God’s glory. Rom 5:1-2


Epic Fail:  If we make another human our source for love and significance, our needs will never be met.

 You cannot base your relationship on the ability of your spouse to meet your needs.  Although, it is your job to put the needs of your spouse above your own.

 Husbands and wives…submit to one another out of reverence for Christ. Eph 5:21


Ten Things Women Want

 1)     She wants to know and be known.

It’s scary and comforting to be known.

 No one has ever seen God. But if we love each other, God lives in us, and his love is brought to full expression in us. 1 John 4:12

 2)     She wants to feel you are one.

 Since they are no longer two but one, let no one split apart what God has joined together.”  Matt 19:6

 3)    More than talk, she wants you to listen.

 4)     She wants you to love her in her language.

Affirmation, Acts of service, Receiving gifts, Quality time, Physical touch


5)     She wants relationship security.  (Unconditional love)

 6)     She wants to be encouraged and valued.

 7)     She wants honesty and openness.

(What are you thinking? Am I in your thought process?)

 8)    She wants domestic and financial trust.

 9)     She wants you to take care of yourself physically.

 10)   She wants affection.

(You did not accidentally fall in love.  You will not accidentally stay in love.)

Bonus:  She wants you to put God first.

 Husbands and wives…submit to one another out of reverence for Christ. Eph 5:21