Everyone thinks they want to be happy.
Latin word hap means chance. Happiness is circumstantial. If _____________ then I am happy.
- Joy is a state of the heart.
- It is an attitude.
- It is a gift from God.
- It is not based on chance or circumstance.
That night there were shepherds staying in the fields nearby, guarding their flocks of sheep. 9 Suddenly, an angel of the Lord appeared among them, and the radiance of the Lord’s glory surrounded them. They were terrified, 10 but the angel reassured them. “Don’t be afraid!” he said. “I bring you good news that will bring great joy to all people. 11 The Savior—yes, the Messiah, the Lord—has been born today in Bethlehem, the city of David! Luke 2:8-11
You can’t control much, but with reliance on the Holy Spirit, you can control Joy ……
the Holy Spirit produces this kind of fruit in our lives: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, 23 gentleness, and self-control. Gal 5:22-23
Dear brothers and sisters,when troubles come your way, consider it an opportunity for great joy. 3 For you know that when your faith is tested, your endurance has a chance to grow. 4 So let it grow, for when your endurance is fully developed, you will be perfect and complete, needing nothing. James 1:2-4
Beliefs that Kill Joy
Belief everything has to be going well.
Belief you need approval of others.
Belief you are who you are and can’t change
Belief you need stuff to be happy
- Belief that you control your life.
- Belief that if you are faithful you will be happy.
- Belief there are some you don’t have to forgive.
- Belief if you pray and try hard enough you will get your dream.
- Belief you can make your will God’s will.
- Belief that someone else besides God should love you unconditionally.
Attitudes that Generate Joy
1) Stay single-minded in your belief and mission.
For to me, living means living for Christ, and dying is even better. 22 But if I live, I can do more fruitful work for Christ. So I really don’t know which is better. Phil 1:21-22
2) Be aware of and keep the needs of others above your own.
3 Don’t be selfish; don’t try to impress others. Be humble, thinking of others as better than yourselves. 4 Don’t look out only for your own interests, but take an interest in others, too. Phil 2:3-4
3) Live as citizens of heaven.
18 For I have told you often before, and I say it again with tears in my eyes, that there are many whose conduct shows they are really enemies of the cross of Christ. 19 They are headed for destruction. Their god is their appetite, they brag about shameful things, and they think only about this life here on earth. 20 But we are citizens of heaven, where the Lord Jesus Christ lives. And we are eagerly waiting for him to return as our Savior. Ph 3:18-20
4) Everything is spiritual.
Don’t worry about anything; instead, pray about everything. Tell God what you need, and thank him for all he has done. 7 Then you will experience God’s peace, which exceeds anything we can understand. His peace will guard your hearts and minds as you live in Christ Jesus. Phil 4:6-7