Other times to say “Bye” and not look back, is if that guy/girl seems to be the kind of person who always has to have constant drama going on in his/her life. They are crazymakers. Things go good but that person always seems to say things or do things that create drama, the negative kind. Chaos people. It is important for those getting into relationships to also look out for unhealthy relationships, aside from the controlling/physically abusive man/woman hitters.

Another thing, get away from a guy/girl who has a very bad value system, or who has no respectable boundaries either for him/herself and/or for you.

While it is not always a true way to judge, so often seeing what kind of family that person comes from might make you want to run away from the relationship without looking back. This is very important if his/her family is very screwed up, lacking in a good value system, full of drunks or substance abusers, and he/she shows no signs of cutting ties to the screwed up people, completely. This is very important because behavioral patterns are crucial to disconnect with if negative and guys/girls will pick up these negative patterns the longer they stay connected to them. Odds are if that person is already 17 – 20 plus years of age, maybe even younger, the pattern of behavior and personality traits will already be established.

If a guy or girl physically hits you, END IT because it gets easier for that person to hit you the longer you stay with him/her. I see it all the time in the legal system and age has nothing to do with it. Young, old, no matter. Abusers are abusers. For young people, if you get hit, the person who hit you or abused you will be so believable and cry at how sorry he/she will never do it again. They will be so dramatic and play on your emotions, stupidity, religious beliefs, low self esteem, etc., oh, these people will even go so far as to say they will kill themselves without you and that it will never happen again. Often they will try to or actually buy you a gift. They were never taught respect and self respect by how they were raised or events that happened in their life while they were raised.

NEVER STAY with abusive people even if you have a kid or kids. Anyone who encourages that is sick in the head and should be knocked around a few times a week themselves. It is easy for a person not in a violent relationship to encourage another to stay in it. Not that any person like that is deserving of any form of respect, but only a selfish crazy person would encourage that either for religious reasons or for kids.

A good person called of God would never encourage a man/woman to stay in a physically or emotionally abusive relationship, with or without kids.

The best way to keep bad relationships at bay is to always know your self worth. ALWAYS TAKE YOUR EDUCATION SERIOUSLY, ESPECIALLY COLLEGE. This will allow you to be independent, NOT dependent. Any person or entity that teaches dependence on your mate is sad and will most likely be coming from a man. Get your college degree, THEN choose to be a stay home mom if that’s what you want, but ONLY after you have your education to fall back on should you need it if the other person chooses to show crazy signs, is killed or dies unexpectedly.

More than anything, learn to love who you are as a person even if you came from a crappy family. Distance yourself from the emotionally sick or mean people as soon as you can.

Negative or mentally crazy mean spirited people will only try to keep you down and they will NEVER want you to better yourself. They will also be jealous of you. Seek out good people with positive goals and people who establish positive boundaries. Look for people with self respect and respect for others to draw yourself to. Always maintain self respect because if you don’t respect yourself, nobody else will. This is very hard if you come from a messed up family. Just know, if you keep looking for a better road to travel, you will find it. Know you are better than that. Do not stay with negative or mentally sick people any longer than you must if you are a minor under the legal age of adulthood. This can be very tricky when a young teen, especially when seeking friends. Keep clinging to positive people, positive teachers, good and loving respectable people, neighbors, church people, but NEVER EVER let those people manipulate or abuse you either. Often bad people are looking for insecure and unsure younger people to abuse too. Just know, a good person does not do ANYTHING to you that is illegal or harmful. A good person cares about you as a person, your interests, respects you, and wants what is best for you to be the best you can be in life.

Good luck to you out there. It is not always easy but with self respect, goals, and boundaries, you’ll keep finding your way down the right roads, even in the dark.

Remember, never forget this last piece of advice. If something tells you in your gut that it is wrong, listen to your gut.

And they also don’t mention that Mr. Al Gore who made the “inconvenient movie” about how us bad humans are causing our fair planet to have a temp…. is the CO OWNER of the LARGEST – CAP AND TAX… I mean Trade ( Carbon Offset) Company in the WORLD! If He and his little movie can convince the governments from around the world that they should put in cap and trade… which would cap the amount of CO2 a company can expel and – trade tax money for anything above that… He will be given TRILLIONS upon TRILLIONS of dollars from all the governments and business’ around the world.

But they don’t tell you about that. It’s kind of Nice (especially if it’s NOT TRUE) to have a move to convince EVERYONE to pay you to become the richest person on the planet… FOR NOTHING – Since it’s probably not true.

But that’s a truth that is very convenient.

somthing is wrong.

-Andreas Lee

That was great, lol.